There are times in life where
different aspects and situations are going to take place and everyone will
receive some type of support. Support comes in multiple forms such as emotional,
spiritual, financial, mental, and physical. Most individuals can personal talk
about financial support that they have received but there are not many people
that discuss the other support that they receive from family, friends, and
sometimes strangers. Out of all my years of living and experiencing different
opportunities I have received all of the different types of support that can be
offered. If I had to sit down and decide who has been my biggest supporters
throughout my life it would be my family. I get support as a mom, wife,
daughter, grand-daughter, niece, professional, friend, and associate. Having a
support team gives me that extra push that I need to succeed. As humans, we can
get overwhelmed and consider quitting or giving up on what we are trying to
achieve because of the multiple obstacles that come one after the other so the
support team makes all the hard work visible and worth completing. A support
team is just like having your own life cheerleaders that shows you why you
should continue to go the extra mile. My support team has stood by my side and
cheered me on for sports, grades, jobs, degrees, motherhood, marriage, and they
continue to cheer me on. To the point that even when I may sit down and the
thought of quitting crosses my mind one of my supporters would call and say the
most inspiring phrase they can think of and the thought of quitting disappears.
I am preparing myself to take a
major exam and my cheerleaders (support team) has been right by my side and talking
with me on future plans. I have talked about this exam for a while and I always
find one way to not take this exam but my prolonging is coming to an end. My
cheerleaders were the only reason I would give the extra push when I felt like
giving up until I had my son. My son is my overall reason for everything now.
My hard work shows him that no matter what he decides to do in life he can
achieve whatever goal he puts his mind to. My motivation to succeed is the fact
that I am creating a legacy for my son to carry on and there is no better
feeling than for your child or children to tell you that they are proud of your
accomplishments. I have heard people say that they do not need anyone to
succeed but I have learned over the years that everyone needs somebody even if
it is just one person being alone in this world has not proven to be the key to
success. When I sit down and consider something that would be a great loss for me I feel that not being able to be a positive inspiration to others would affect me. I enjoy reaching, teaching, and touching the lives of others, whether they are children or adults. Sometimes we touch people lives that we know nothing about just because they are watching us as an example. Being an inspiration is important because we will not always know who we are reaching with our actions or messages but it is a great feeling for the individuals that come to us and thank us for a job well done. I personally appreciate the thanks because those individuals have no idea of how many times I have considered giving up on that specific project not knowing that I was being an inspiration to them.
Kontrina,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your post. Having "cheerleaders" in your corner is important because having someone cheering and supporting you during hard times is important to your growth spiritually and mentally.